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Lalain Majid

Sessions · Talking when you disagree

How to disagree without falling out

Most young people are never taught how to have a hard conversation. I've facilitated courses at Dialogue Academy since 2023, and this session uses the same simple tools: listening properly, asking questions instead of scoring points, and disagreeing without making it personal.

Lalain in orange, leaning in to help two students at a laptop during a Dialogue Academy course
Dialogue Academy
Seasonal course

What's covered

What you get

  • 01Listening that makes the other person feel heard
  • 02How to ask questions instead of arguing
  • 03Ground rules for talking about hard topics
  • 04Practice on a disagreement the group chooses, with ground rules in place

Who it's for

It suits

  • 01

    Students aged 13 to 18

  • 02

    Schools with diverse or divided groups

  • 03

    Youth exchanges and summits

  • 04

    Teams and community groups

Why me

What I bring

  • Course facilitator at Dialogue Academy since 2023.
  • Women's Role in Peacebuilding fellow and Dialogue for Changemakers participant (2021).
  • Peace leadership camp in the Himalayas with Youth Impact (2022).

with Dialogue Academy

From my dialogue sessions

Lalain in orange, leaning in to help two students at a laptop
Leaning in
Dialogue Academy, Kiran Foundation
A facilitator at the front of a classroom of students seated at round tables, a slide on the screen behind
Five days of hard conversations
Dialogue Academy, Aga Khan Higher Secondary School
A group of young participants and facilitators posing in a library
The whole group, on the last day
Dialogue Academy, Kiran Foundation
Students sitting in a circle on the carpet during a dialogue session
Sitting in a circle helps
Dialogue Academy, Aga Khan Higher Secondary School
Lalain handing a gift bag to a participant in a library
Certificates and a thank you
Dialogue Academy, Kiran Foundation

How it runs

Four steps

  1. 1

    Ground rules

    The group agrees how it wants to talk to each other.

  2. 2

    Listen

    In pairs, students practise listening without interrupting and then repeat back what they heard.

  3. 3

    Disagree

    A structured conversation on a topic the group chooses.

  4. 4

    Reflect

    What changed for them, and what they'll try next time.

Questions

Good to know

Online or in person?
Both. Most sessions are online, and I travel for in-person workshops and events, so ask me about dates.
Does a staff member need to be present?
For sessions with under-18s, yes, every time. It's one of my safeguarding rules.
Can you adapt a session for us?
Yes. We'll have a short call first so the session fits your group and what you want them to leave with.
What does it cost?
Single online sessions start at $250. Series and full days are quoted after a quick call.

Get in touch

Tell me about your group

Tell me who it's for, how many people, and roughly when. I read every message myself and will reply with ideas, possible dates and a price.

Send me a message

Or email hellolalainmajid@gmail.com